Later, much later, I found out he lost a girl over it. The holes were proof of fun and proof that Matthew really is Toothless the Dragon or a leopard.
I told him not every girl liked Toothless and that some girls even liked boys with hole-less pants. And then, I bought him new jeans for a new school year.
I bought new jeans for Travis too because this year he started Kindergarten. He's ready.
He can tie his own shoe and write his own name and make new friends and feed himself. Every day I see his face change and grow and sparkle. And I wonder if I'll remember a time when he would cling to my leg and close his eyes so no one could see him.
In 3rd grade the children were instructed to sit boy-girl-boy-girl on the first day, which increased Matthew's chance of finding a new girlfriend this year. As I left, I could have told him to use his wit or his kindness or charm to find her, but instead whispered that I didn't mind whether or not his pants had holes.

4 comments:
your boys are so big and handsome! Man I remember when you just had Travis! Makayla looks so pretty! Slow down time!
Love those kids of yours! They have one good momma too.
I loved this post.
I love to read your writings! You are a great mom!
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